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中學記者 14-04-200503:55 pm#1



請大家幫忙,想想辦法



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中學記者 14-04-200503:55 pm#2



Tell him that he is not important to you. Doing somthing that he dosen't like. Be with a man who is handsome, tall, rich, whatever ... hahaha
中學記者 14-04-200503:56 pm#3



...... I've already told him not to waste time on me anymore.
It's impossible for the 2 of us to be together. We can only be friends.

But my friend told me that he's not willing to give up.

and..the point is...he's my best friend's friend..... don't wanna hurt him. What can i do?
中學記者 14-04-200503:56 pm#4



Your "best friend" should so something because he or she brought this guy to you.

From now on, do not let that guy knows more about you. He must be asking your friend about you everyday. Actually, it is pretty simple, just don't see and talk with him. You don't need to say something bad to him. It works for me because I did that to many girls. Don't think that I am bad because I have been with my gf for many years. I don't want anyone get hurt. I don't understand how can some people handle many lovers at the same time. Do they have 25 hours a day?
中學記者 14-04-200503:56 pm#5



so...do u have a bf or love somebody???
中學記者 14-04-200503:57 pm#6



Actually I fall in love with another guy (let's call him "A")but he's in UK right now. He has a girlfriend and we almost start a relationship. I keep thinking of him every single day........

And HE(this one...just call him "B") knows it.....i mean the guy who's bothering me at the moment.

I can't ignore B since he's become a friend of mine already. I still have to chat with him and go out with him ( of coz' not only the 2 of us)... gosh..........
中學記者 14-04-200503:57 pm#7



Well, let's talk about Mr. B. You have to make him believe and accept your relationship will not beyond "lover". When hanging out with him and your friends, keep saying he is your friend only. Not only saying that to him, tell everybody that you and him are only friend. People around you and him will make him believe and accept the fact. Good Luck.

Now, Mr. A is in UK. I tell you what ... seek for someone else, He is enjoying his live with his gf in UK. Don't wait. It is too far. It is not going to work. I read your posts in other boards. I guess you are not very young. Don't waste time on someone who cannot stay with you. There may be Mr. C waiting for you.
中學記者 14-04-200503:57 pm#8



...B is treating me too nice... as if i were his girlfriend.

....and.. I know "A" doesn't like me anymore. It's just that I keep thinking of how we used to be in the summer time. I'm not waiting for him but trying to forget him.

In deed, I'm only 17...... with a pretty mature mind~ =)
中學記者 14-04-200503:57 pm#9



Are you joking? A pretty mature mind?
我覺得你妳幼稚
中學記者 14-04-200503:58 pm#10



在哪方面...令你覺得我很幼稚呢?
告訴我,讓我有機會改過
中學記者 14-04-200503:59 pm#11



In my opinion, you will never know how "B" will treat you if you never start with you. Honestly, every guy will treat you very good at the process of chasing you. However, after you are his gf, he will become his own. I don't mean that he will treat you bad, but at least will not as good as you imagine now. This is the fact.

I also think that you are not mature enough. If you don't have feeling on "B", you don't need to do anything bad to him, just tell him directly and don't waste his time. You can honestly tell him that you still cannot forget "A".

If you really want to forget "A", then don't try to forget him. As you try to forget him, you keep on thinking of him. If you don't think about forgetting him, time goes by and you will know.
中學記者 14-04-200503:59 pm#12



Thank you,Emily.

But U know what? I've told him everything but he's still full of confidence. I'm so sick of it. He calls me every morning just to wake me up and hear my voice! Gosh! It's so disturbing...

Anyway, I'll just treat him as my friend.
中學記者 14-04-200504:00 pm#13



Emily, you may be right. Once guy captures girl's heart, we will not treat you as very good as before. Well, may be not 100% but 99% of us. Shame on guy, huh?
中學記者 14-04-200504:00 pm#14



He is the one who wake you up now, but for sure (99%) you will be the one who wake him up in the future. If you really feel that he is annoying, why don't you tell him directly or let his friends know. I think his friends will let him know ga la.
中學記者 14-04-200504:00 pm#15



Um... now everything seems to be fine. I know what i have to do. That's ...focus on my study and not to think of love right now. Coz' A-level exam is coming!!

Thank you for all ur advice. =)
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